A Tribute to my Mom - Jean Bebout

My mom died of brain cancer in August on 1989. For ten succesive mornings during her illness, she woke with one distinct and clearly defined thought uppermost in her mind. These ideas gave her a sense of peace and order. My sister Ruth, was the primary caregiver, and recorded these ten thoughts. We would like to share these thoughts with you for your personal reflection.

Life is difficult.

Pain is inevetable.

Life is motion.

Worry is useless.

Communication is necessary.

Worry is turmoil.

Space is needed.

Singlemindedness is healthy.

Contrast is paramount.

Sex is basic.

I am gathering a collection of thoughts, stories, quotes, et cetera on these ten themes. If you would like to contribute any of material please feel free to e-mail me paul.gruhn@yale.edu